I’m A Stay-At-Home Mom, Should I Get A Job?

“A good mother and devoted wife is a priceless blessing in any family. There is just no amount of money that can be attached to this role. The value of a devoted wife and mother is priceless and deserves compensation and the courts know that. But the fact is that life is not fair, and your ex may not be able to pay what you deserve. Use your attorney to get what you can but know that the best approach will include a sound game of reeducation, reentry into the work force, and a positive attitude that you are capable of great things.”

I'm A Stay-At-Home Mom, Should I Get A Job?

To Work Or Not During A Divorce?

Q: I’m a stay-at-home mom. I’m getting divorced. Should I get a job?
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If it looks like divorce is inevitable and you’ve been a stay at home mom, you will have to do a great deal of planning to support yourself in your post-divorce life. Here are some tips for before, during and after the divorce.

1. Planning Before Divorce:
First, look at your skills. If you have a college degree or some kind of training, you can focus on getting those skills up to date and ready for the job market. If you don’t have skills, now is the time to start working on acquiring them, and the sooner the better. Look to see if there is a local career counselor who specializes in counseling women re-entering the job market.

 It’s best to go ahead and get a job and start working before the divorce is final. For one thing, it will build up your confidence and show you that you can make it on your own. Another reason is that you will need credit and a work history for a mortgage, apartment or credit cards. It’s a good idea to have a work history of earning your own money, even if it’s just a short time such as three to six months.

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